I had 39 solid weeks of pregnancy. Measurements were right where they needed to be, baby boy’s heart rate was great and I was feeling good. I hired a doula and was ready to rock out a natural water birth with her by my side. This was so special to me because my first birth experience although “problem free”, hosted its own set of personal issues for me after. I was determined to write our story, the one where the mom is in a tub, husband by her side, medication free, welcoming the baby earthside in her own right, no question. Being transverse most of my pregnancy, boy had other plans, but I remained hopeful.
Saturday afternoon, I woke up feeling “off”. I couldn’t put my finger on it, and I spent much of the day talking myself off the ledge. I dismissed my inner nervousness as just that, nervous energy that was due to the anticipation of my soon to be birth of my baby. But, physically I felt off, and again, tried to chalk it up as simply nerves.
Sunday morning, baby boy didn’t wake me up at exactly 7 AM with kicks. 10:30 AM, after drinking cold water, eating eggs and laying on both my left and right side for extensive periods of time, I still didn’t hear from the little boy inside my belly. Finally, around 12:30 PM, he had hiccups and I remember feeling so relieved. I remember thinking, “ok, he’s still alive”. But, in my gut, I knew something was wrong. I began to feel scared, and then angry because I didn’t know where to go on a Sunday afternoon for help. What was I supposed to do and who was I supposed to call?
Sunday night, I did not sleep. Like, really, truly did not close my eyes. And, if I’m being honest, I was violently afraid that if I fell asleep, I would miss something and that my baby would be dead. For some reason in my rational/irrational mind, I thought that by being awake, I was riding out the storm with him, like when you are on a long road trip and there is no way in hell you, as the passenger are falling asleep, only to let the driver down. Because the driver is EXHAUSTED, the driver doesn’t know how they’re going to make it to their exit. But, with you as the passenger, the driver will get there, no matter what. So that’s what we did on Sunday night. We drove and drove and drove, only hoping to get to where we needed to go the next day.
Monday morning, I called my OB’s office and they said a nurse would call me back. Let me ask y’all something: ever tell a mama bear to wait to take care of their potentially ill child?! Yeah. No. Just no. So, I did what any of y’all would have done- I drove to the office and demanded someone run some tests and find that baby boy of mine, and tell me that he was alive, vibrant, OK.
An hour later, baby boy failed the movement test. His heart rate was escalated. I immediately knew that something was wrong. I immediately knew that I was about to enter into a time/space where I had zero control, and that I had zero insight into what was going on, and no say in how my son was going to birthed. But, mama’s, we never really have control, we never really know. But, in that moment and as I am writing this, I am convinced that this, all of this, WE ARE MADE FOR THIS. We are made to practice calm amidst chaos, we are made to take care of our babies the minute our pregnancy test is positive, we are made to protect our children, and we do all of this without a single thought because it’s truly innate in us.
Fast forward to our baby boys birth via c-section. At this point, we had no idea anything was wrong, we just knew that the doctors were acting fast. In that moment, I felt super thankful for my OB, my doula and my husband. I needed a team that brought calm, and they each in their own way did just that. What felt like a long time was only twenty minutes and suddenly our boy was born, crying, dangling in the air. I noticed that he looked extremely pale and was just waiting to hear what was wrong.
A few minutes later, I was told that he’d need a blood transfusion, and he would also need to ride in a seperate ambulance to Greenville Memorial. Again, all I could think about was that I wanted him to be ok, and all I could do was trust that he would be. Riding in the ambulance by myself was the absolute worst feeling. Where was my baby? Why wasn’t he with me, skin to skin, nursing? Were we going to be ok, and when would I see him again? I arrive to Greenville Memorial and was checked into a room. The nurses were overly nice, and I began to realize that I was tagged as someone who experienced trauma, that my son, was a baby who would always have a traumatic birth story. I cried.
For two days our baby, Julian, was in the NICU. He was healing after his blood transfusion and being monitored. I can’t begin to tell you how it feels to see your baby in an incubator, with a bunch of wires attached to their body. The worst part is the unknown- when we will be better, and will I get to take him home when I am discharged? Both nights, I would hold him, stare at him and just pray.
As far as what happened to me and Julian- it was a series of unexplained medical phenomenons. My placenta grew threw my uterine wall and into my stomach. This caused our baby to be malnourished. Our sons blood was also going into my blood stream, causing him to be extremely anemic. His chord was lacerated and no one could explain how this happened and why he was still alive. If I would have waited a few more hours, both he and I would not be here. That’s a tough pill to swallow, but throughout this entire process, I’ve maintained a very thankful and humble attitude. Bottom line: I’ve continued to remain at peace because WE ARE HERE.
Mama’s, trust your guts. I repeat trust your guts. If something feels off with you or your unborn baby, it is. I believe with all of my heart that moms are super humans and our intuition is undeniable. I debated sharing my story, but something in my heart told me that I had to. If I can help one of you to trust yourselves and possibly save you and/or your baby, sharing a piece of my experience is worth it.
In parenthood, “vacations” are often (lovingly) stripped of that luxurious title and are quickly reduced to being called “trips”! The thought of traveling with kiddos can feel intimidating in general, not even factoring in the things that are entirely out of our control… potentially inclimate weather, holiday traffic/airline delays, etc. However, there are lots of good memories to be made on the end of that trek… stay strong, mama!
To help get your mind right about traveling during this upcoming holiday season, here are some tips that have helped us in holidays past, and we hope they will help you, too.
– If you know you’re stopping overnight, pack one separate duffle bag with at least 1-2 changes of clothes for each family member, toiletries, and overnight must-haves (sound machine, pacis, etc.) to keep from bringing in/rummaging through ALL the luggage at the late night stop.
– If you don’t have a first aid kit in your car yet, throw one together to keep in the trunk. A basic kit would include: thermometer, Tylenol/Motrin (both children’s and adult), bandaids, neosporin/Aquaphor, hand sanitizer, boogie wipes/extra baby wipes.)
– Make sure you have plenty of extra blankets, bottled water and a flashlight with fresh batteries in case of car trouble.
– Keep an entertainment “Bag of Tricks” within arms-reach of the co-pilot: activities, books, toys, etc., that can be easily handed to the backseat.
– If you allow screentime (both my hands are up!) ensure shows/games are pre-downloaded and you have a full charge the night before (And, an extra long charging cord doesn’t hurt the cause, either!)
– Determine whether or not you’ll purchase an airline seat for your child. Most airlines allow children under 2 years of age to fly free as a lap child.
– If you want to bring the carseat on the flight, especially for longer trips, buy the extra seat. Some airlines offer infant pricing; you can call reservations directly prior to booking to see what fares are available.
**Either way, make sure you bring their birth certificate for age identification. If you are taking baby onboard as a lap child, you can get a boarding document from the ticket counter prior to going through security.
– Travel bags can protect your checked/gate-checked items (strollers, carseats, etc.)
– Consider how much additional luggage and gear you will have and make a plan for getting it all into the airport. Best case, your airport offers curbside check-in or valet parking. If not, determine if it makes more sense for one person, baby, and luggage to be dropped off at the terminal while the other person goes to park the car, or if everyone should go together. If you choose the latter option, you will likely need a cart (available on site at most airports) to transport everything.
– If you have a baby carrier, consider babywearing through security. If you have a long layover, a stroller with a recline can be helpful for naps. You can gate-check the stroller before boarding.
– Formula and breastmilk can be carried on, but may require an additional screening. If using liquid formula, make sure the containers are sealed. For powder formula, buy or fill your water bottle once through security.
– Call ahead to determine if car seat rental is an option. If bringing your own, and if you’re using the same car for the entire trip it will make sense to pack the car seat base.
– Consider how much additional luggage and gear you will have with you when determining what type of vehicle you will rent.
– Research where the car rental lots are in relation to the airport terminal; like you did with the first airport drop off, gameplan in advance car retrieval approach. Teamwork makes the dreamwork!
– Consider the sleeping arrangements. Some hotels provide discounted rates on adjoining rooms. If you think you will need additional space, or if your child is an extremely light sleeper, inquire with the hotel directly about the availability of this option. Also, look into hotels that offer suites!
– Look for hotels with dining options available onsite; breakfast in the room or at the hotel is usually an easier way to start the day.
– Call ahead to discuss portable crib availability. Ask for the brand and age of the crib ahead of time to ensure safety; if this information isn’t available or if you aren’t comfortable with their answer, plan to bring your own.
– If your kiddo has sensitive skin, eczema or allergies, you may want to consider bringing your own crib sheet, blankets and towels.
– AirBnB’s can be a more comfortable (and oftentimes price comparable) option when it comes to traveling with kiddos. Always check the amenities list to see what kid friendly items will be available!
– #1: snacks, snacks, and more snacks! A deep snack arsenal is usually a good indicator for a successful trip ahead. It can be fun to try new special snacks for a first flight or a first long road trip, if your kiddo is old enough to get excited about that. Otherwise, stock up on pre-portioned snacks you can rely on.
– If visiting family/friends, see what they have on-hand for you to borrow before packing up your entire house. Also, ship your gifts to your destination!
– Try to set departures to align with sleep time (naps, early morning/late at night.)
– Dress everyone in light layers to adjust to different temps.
– Look for activities that are mess-free and with few pieces. (i.e., leave the puzzles at home and opt for the Melissa and Doug “Water-Wow” activity books instead.)
– Take breaks as you can, even if that means adding a few extra stops. A rested and fed traveler is a happy traveler!
Lastly, a few of our favorite travel blogs + resources:
Happy and Safe Travels, Mamas!
By: Lillian Brooks
Art. It’s a small word with big benefits for people of all ability levels. However, perhaps no other group can reap such positive rewards through learning and doing art than children. All children, regardless of their physical or cognitive abilities, can get involved and enjoy everything from color and composition to the self-expression that goes along with boundless creativity.
Types of art
Art is everywhere, from the pictures on your wall to the design of each food package at your local grocery store. You can find art in the layout of a well-planned city and the stitches of a handmade quilt. Children especially enjoy art that provides instant gratification, such as drawing and making figures from clay.
Many children with learning disabilities also have visual concerns that make artistic endeavors difficult. For these children, you must help them “see” the end result so they may understand the project. This can be accomplished by allowing them to touch a finished version. Other accommodations for physical barriers include added lighting, lowered tables, and paintbrushes and other tools with adaptive handles. VSA Vermont offers more information on modifying art materials for people with limited dexterity.
One of the most common learning disabilities is autism. While an ASD child may be fully capable of learning, many are programmed to think in literal terms and may find art superfluous. A rejection against art projects may be compounded by sensory input disorders, which often plague children on the spectrum. Janelle Farrand of Muddy Rose Pottery explains that sculpting out of clay is a particularly beneficial activity for autistic children. She explains that using a pottery wheel encompasses all of the senses in a soothing and calm atmosphere.
Children with dyslexia and other learning disorders can also benefit from the arts. Those who have trouble reading can learn to rely on audio programming to learn to listen for sounds as opposed to reading music, for instance. Kids with attention disorders, such as ADHD, may use physically expressive art, such as dance, as an outlet for pent-up energy.
Tips and tricks
In addition to catering to each child’s needs, teaching art in a classroom setting requires extra preparation. If you have a blend of abilities in your classroom, you can get a head start on your preparation with these steps:
- Set up materials in an organized manner
- Outline specific shapes on a canvas or drawing paper before children begin
- Offer plenty of options
- Think outside the box by using unusual materials for painting
- Allow children to use stencils or cookie cutters to give themselves a visual guide
- Read a story prior to each art lesson, then relate the project to the story
- Add a drop of scented oil paints to spark interest
Here are two projects you can use to help your learning disabled children engage in new art projects.
Painting with sponges. Take normal kitchen sponges and cut them into different shapes. Show your students photographs of landscapes, and allow them to pick and choose which sponge pieces to use to create an abstract version of the image. Different types of sponges have different textures, so make sure to offer plenty of variety. This is a good starting project for young children; older children may gravitate toward more in-depth projects. The Art of Education offers additional ideas on how to modify art projects for special needs students.
Sewing a quilt. Sewing is more than just a life skill; it is an art form. Some children with learning differences may enjoy a long-term project, such as making a quilt. You can introduce your children to sewing and textile arts with simple projects, such as making a pillow or learning how to sew a button onto a shirt. HomeAdvisor has gathered and organized many valuable sewing resources you can use to launch your own educational art initiative.
Children with learning differences are still children. They will enjoy having the opportunity to get their hands dirty and present their parents and teachers with a piece of art to display in a place of honor at home or at school.
About the Author: Lillian Brooks
Lillian Brooks is the founder of learningdisabilities.info. For years, Lillian worked as a special education teacher with a focus on teaching children with learning disabilities. She created learningdisabilities.info to offer information and understanding to parents of children with learning disabilities, as well as adults who are in need of continued support in order to succeed.
By: Leslie Westendorf, Owner of Maxpatch Studio
It was January. My son was almost a year old and I had a sudden jolt of energy that I hadn’t felt since before he was born. It was as though the fog of that first year had finally lifted and I felt that I could do more than survive the day-to-day. It was also the beginning of a new year, which meant goals, routines, and resolutions. Shortly after speaking with a college friend, Ciara Burton, who offers personalized mindfulness and leadership programs to women, I started Maxpatch Studio, an interior design studio devoted to growing families. I specialize in nurseries and big kid rooms, play spaces, and family rooms—places to eat, sleep, and lounge.
I bought a domain, filed for an LLC, created a website, and then I contacted Amber Michels, founder of Your Milk Shoppe, which serves soon-to-be and veteran mamas in the Upstate and and beyond. During our first coffee date, Amber revealed she was expecting her second baby, a little boy, and asked if I would be interested in designing her son’s nursery in their new home. It was a no brainer! My fledgling business was off to a good start.
As the weeks went by, Amber and I started planning. For every new project, I start with a conversation. I ask things like: If you could describe your ideal space, what three adjectives would you use? And: How will you typically use this space? I also try to understand color and style preferences, if any existing furniture or accessory items will be incorporated into the new design, and budget considerations. Having majored in architecture and interior design during my undergraduate years, I know professional interior design services can feel out of reach for most people. One of the principles of Maxpatch is to offer affordable design services to families. And a way to do this is with thoughtful design choices, such as intentionally selecting pieces that will last for years and transition with families as they grow and change.
After understanding the hopes and goals for a new space, I create a style board—a combination of inspiration images from around the web and specific product selections from retailers and independent artists and makers. I love to incorporate one-of-a-kind pieces wherever possible (Etsy is a great place to look and makers love to work with you!). With Amber, we started with a mostly blank slate, except for the crib she had used with her first daughter and a vintage dresser she had purchased years ago while living in New Orleans. Both would remain in the nursery, but the dresser would get a face lift with a fresh coat of paint and new hardware.
Next, we selected an area rug. It set the tone for the entire space. Lots of blues, from deep navy to pretty turquoise, plus the tiniest bit of golden ochre provided a rich color palette for the remaining pieces. We added a new glider/recliner and side table, a tall bookcase, a floor lamp, and blackout curtains, which matched the glider perfectly.
Then, it was time for art and accessories. I recently discovered Audrey Bodisco and immediately fell in love with her work. I sent her the style board and a photo of the rug and she created the most beautiful commissioned piece for baby Michels. It’s easily my favorite part of the room and something he will have for years to come. An oversized wall mirror and animal prints by Sharon Montrose added that necessary dose of “baby” to the space.
Lastly, we layered in the final details: a custom lumbar pillow with golden tassels, a pom pom mobile in saturated hues, a simple strand of wooden beads, baskets, bed linens, and plants! If you ever ask yourself, what is this room missing? The answer is always a plant. Lucky for us, Greenville has several great local plant stores who are willing to answer any questions you might have: Savereignin the Village of West Greenville, Urban Digs on the east side, and Roots on Augusta Road.
There you have it, baby Michels’ picture perfect nursery. We are ready for you baby boy!
All nursery photos beautiful captured by the lovely and talented Courtney Malone.
If you or anyone you know is nesting and waiting on baby and wants the perfect nursery, I’m your girl. If you need a grown-up space for your growing toddler, please reach out. And if there’s something from your dream home wishlist you’d like design help with, I’d love to hear from you! Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org, visit my website for more information, and follow me on Instagram!
Shop Baby Michels’ Nursery
Rug, Lulu & Georgia
Wall hooks, Loop Design Studio
Custom artwork, Audrey Bodisco
Animal prints, Animal Print Shop
Wood frames, IKEA
Leather drawer pulls, Etsy
Changing pad cover, West Elm x PBK
African Mudcloth pillow, Etsy
Safari quilt, CrateKids
Midcentury floor lamp, West Elm
Wall mirror, West Elm
Basket side table, Urban Outfitters
Wooden bead garland, Etsy
Crib, Pottery Barn Kids
Mobile, West Elm x PBK
Crib sheet, Burt’s Bees
Blanket, Rylee & Cru
Bookshelf, Pottery Barn Kids
About the Author:
Leslie Westendorf lives in Greenville, SC with her husband Brad, son Leo (18 months), and rescue pup Elliott. She is a midwest native who has lived everywhere from Savannah to LA to Boston and Providence, and back to the south. Maxpatch Studio is her official #sidehustle. She also works full time as a researcher and strategist for Wondros, a multi-media design studio.
During her nearly a decade of nannying for a number of different families with kids of all ages, Laura learned how to take charge of the household and understand the bigger picture. Having picked up on all the little things involved with motherhood, she found herself being called on by a number of mommies-to-be to consult them on where to begin and how to make decisions in an overwhelming world of choices.
While exploring how to support mothers from a broader standpoint in a more entrepreneurial setting, Laura discovered Your Milk Shoppe as a perfect platform to help others.
Laura is a native Atlantan and was born in Buckhead. She loves her in-town life and can’t wait to bring Your Milk Shoppe “ITP”!
From grade school through college and up the ladder in Corporate America, Jaymee always found that there was a straight forward formula of hard working equaling success. Then she and her husband welcomed the first of their three young children and she quickly found that hard work didn’t always lead to what felt like success – hello breastfeeding a baby with reflux issues! Welcoming that first baby opened her heart to the greatest joy it’s ever known and also turned her world completely upside down.
Navigating multiple pregnancies, maternity leaves and back to work transitions, all while parenting three very different babies has led Jaymee to fully understand how critical it is for mama’s to have a strong support system in place. She found she relied greatly on connecting with other moms. As days and weeks grew into years, she began feeling called to share her own story in a real, open, honest way to support others.
Jaymee is so excited to bring the mission and services of Your Milk Shoppe to Tennessee. She is honored to have the opportunity to provide support to both moms-to-be as they prepare to welcome their sweet babies into this world and to the many busy moms of Knoxville as they journey through their busiest seasons of life.
My why is my family – my husband and my three beautiful kids. I am at my best when I am busy and working hard and feel called to work to support women as they journey to and through motherhood so that I can be my best self for my family.
If you’d like to connect with Jaymee, she would LOVE to hear from you! Please feel free to drop her a line at email@example.com!
By: Ashley Taylor
If you have a child on the autism spectrum, safety can be a real concern. In fact, many children on the spectrum are unaware of the dangers around them. You can help your child, though, by designing a backyard that she can safely use.
Difficulties Your Child May Experience
Your child may have a number of issues that can impact her ability to be safe in any environment:
Nearly 50 percent of children with autism have been found to wander away from a safe environment, according to AWAARE, a collaborative group that works to keep kids safe. If your child is in the backyard, you need to make sure she stays there.
Heightened senses can make her jump at loud noises and muted senses mean she doesn’t feel the cold. Whether your child is hypersensitive, under-sensitive or some combination of both, she may not be aware of overexposure to the sun, cold, rain, or injuries. Learn more about how poor sensory integration can impact a child on the spectrum at Autism.com.
Poor Awareness of Danger
Children on the spectrum struggle to identify dangers. This complex issue involves a problem with a part of the brain called the amygdala, as well as other functions like prediction, language and more. Snagglebox explains this problem and how to help a child.
Creating A Safe Yard
There are a number of things you must do make sure your yard is safe for your child:
Build A Fence
A fence is a surefire way to protect your child from wandering as long as you build it appropriately to ensure she can’t climb over it or escape under it. If you want to put a door in the fence, use one with a double-sided key lock and make sure your child cannot access or use the key.
Lock Down Your Tools And Chemicals
Gardening tools, like pruning shears, and chemicals such as pesticides can be dangerous so be sure to keep them under lock and key. You might want to avoid using any harsh chemicals on your lawn in case your child is sensitive or allergic to them. Here are some ideas for nontoxic lawn care that are even safe for your pets.
This blog post from Irie Diva recommends you provide all the heat relief your child needs, including making her come indoors from time to time. Some children on the spectrum also struggle to sweat and turn bright red from too much exertion so make sure she stay hydrated as much as possible as well. If your child drinks from the garden hose, check if it is labeled “drink-safe” by the FDA. If not, it might contain lead, according to this article at Best Lawn Sprinkler Co. We recommend keeping a water bottle or cooler with drinks on hands as long as your child is outside to avoid the hose.
Research shows that drowning is a top cause of death for children on the spectrum, according to Science Daily, so unless your child is a strong swimmer, avoid putting any kind of pool in your backyard.
Building Your Yard
There are lots of great ways to keep your child safely entertained when you’re outside. Here are some entertaining activities that you can enjoy together as a family:
- Take her backyard camping. You may not be able to camp in the woods but you can pitch a tent and put the sleeping bags in the yard. Fire up the grill to toast marshmallows.
- Build a birdhouse together and then teach your child to appreciate nature as you bird watch together.
- Create a garden. Kids love growing flowers or produce. Be sure to buy garden gloves so your child can feel like an official gardener while keeping her hands free from sensory issues.
It doesn’t take much to make the necessary adjustments that ensure your child’s comfort and safety. Creating a safe and accessible backyard for her to play in is worth the effort for your child’s fun and your peace of mind.
About the Author: Ashley Taylor
Ashley Taylor is a freelance writer, photographer, and advocate for people with disabilities. She created DisabledParents.org to provide information and resources to other parents with disabilities. When she isn’t working, she enjoys spending time with her husband and two children.
Visit Ashley’s website for further information and resources!
Today, we’re recapping our comfort and support must-haves for pregnancy wear, direct from fellow preggo mama YMS Founder Amber Michels!!
Pregnancy in summertime can be a bit on the uncomfortable side, so chances are you’re in hot pursuit of the most light-weight, flattering clothes you can find. You really only need a few key items, ones that you can wear during pregnancy and after.
Blanqi! We live and die by this brand for pregnancy wear. You’ll only need 1-2 leggings and tops and you’re set. This company has truly cracked the code; the pieces are seamless (can we get an amen?!), so supportive, and so breathable. You can wear the top and pants every day- whether you’re at home wrestling kiddos, working out or going on a grocery run, this brand IS IT!
One of the earlier changes you may notice within your body is in your breasts. They begin to grow, and will feel sore at certain stages (especially in the very beginning and the very end). With that said, you absolutely need to invest in some nursing bras that are comfortable and practical enough to wear while you’re pregnant, during the day and also at night when you’re sleeping.
We cannot say enough good things about Thirdlove 24/7 Classic Wireless Nursing Bra. This line of bras is revolutionary as far as we’re concerned. The support is like no other and the quality is noticeable. These bras are seamless, soft and super flattering under your clothes. Plus, they donate bras to underserved woman across the world, and who can’t get behind that kind of double support??
Next up is Motherhood Maternity Unlined Nursing Sleep Bra. Can I just tell you, it’s pure magic?! It feels like a soft sports bra, and offers the support that you’ll need when in bed. This bra will also be great in the beginning stages of breastfeeding because it’s so soft and forgiving.
You may find yourself really wanting support in other areas, too…. your tummy, your butt and your thighs, especially! If you’re used to clothes fitting a certain way, and have lost that magic look and feel while pregnant- here’s your answer!
Maternity Spanx comes in shorts, hosiery, slips- the sky is the limit here. And, there is really no occasion that doesn’t call for these bad boys! I recommend starting with two pairs of the shorts and seeing if that’s enough!
Now that we’ve covered the essentials for daytime support, let’s talk about that nighttime support. Mamas, you will need some super soft and forgiving pajamas from early on. Why? Because your day to day mission will be about one thing: comfort! There will be nothing like throwing your jammies on at night, and putting your feet up.
I recommend many sets of maternity pajamas, but always go back to Belabumbum because of the fabric, the options and the prints. You can buy a few sets at the beginning and wear them all the way through nursing. This is a no brainer if you ask me. I still have my first set from four years ago, and they continue to be my go-to, my happy place at night!
Sending you lots of love and support and wishing you plenty of comfort throughout the rest of your pregnancy!
In our line of work, we are constantly asked by moms what it is that they REALLY need for their newborn. With so many products and so many tools (ahem, google, we’re lookin at you), it is hard to not over buy the first time around. Our goal with Product Rec Tuesday on Instagram and Baby Gear Breakdown is to give all of you new mamas something to refer to when putting together your registry, to help you pinpoint what items will work best for you and help you answer some of the “why this over that?” questions you may have. Once all of the essentials are knocked out, and your nursery is stocked, you can begin to save some money for the future months & years ahead. Sound good?!?
Today’s focus is Travel Systems. AKA, the infant car seat and stroller combo.
Before we get too far, let’s clarify the key difference between convertible and infant car seats: a convertible car seat stays in the car, while an infant car seat clicks in and out of a base that stays in the car, thus creating a “travel system” with the stroller base.
When choosing a stroller, it can be really hard to decide which one will work best for your family. We recommend physically trying them out in a big box retailer; see how easily they collapse, how it feels to push, and how bulky they are to maneuver when folded. A few other things to note: conversion options to accommodate multiples (if you plan on back to back kiddos), the size of the basket, and available accessories, just to name a few.
Bugaboo Donkey2 2018 multi-purpose stroller is beautiful, and now even more functional, more convenient to use for parents and more comfy for babies. This is the ultimate convertible stroller that can be customized to suit parents’ style and expanded to adjust to growing family’s needs.
Baby Jogger City Select LUX is a great stroller. It’s super versatile and offers over 20 different seating options, and is a great solution for families with one or multiple children. It can be used as a single stroller, converts to a double stroller, or even make it a triple with a Glider Board. It handles all types of terrain and provides very comfortable ride for the baby.
uppaBABY VISTA is an ultra-versatile stroller, and keeps getting better with age! The 2018 model features an extended bassinet, real leather accents on all strollers, and new colors. It will grow with your family from the newborn stage well into toddlerhood. Keep in mind, it’s easy to collapse, but is a bit on the heavy side.
Nuna Demi Grow is their newest stroller just launched in 2018. We have a feeling it’s going to stick around for a while. It has 23 different seating options, and is Nina’s first expandable stroller. Parents can start using it from birth with a bassinet or an infant car seat. It works with 2 infant car seats, two bassinets, 2 toddler seats or one of each. The stroller is easy to collapse and intentionally lighter than their previous one.
We’re just beyond the halfway point of summer (and we don’t want to talk about it) BUT, that means there’s a good chance mama’s think-tank of activities is running on E. Fret not, we’ve got you covered.
Here’s a round-up of some of our favorite inexpensive, homemade projects and sensory activities for your kiddos. You can never have too many ideas in your arsenal to keep everyone entertained and happy… especially on a rainy day, too!
Kid-made drum set
We are huge fans of this as it is cheap, easy and super fun!
Here’s what you’ll need:
-safety can opener that doesn’t leave sharp edges
-balloons – use 7 inch balloons on smaller cans and 9 inch balloons on larger cans
-dowels and beads for drumsticks
Thank you to @itsalwaysautumnblog for this genius idea. Check out her amazing blog, it is full of wonderful ideas for the whole family
Homemade bird feeder
Reasons we love this idea: it takes minutes to put together, and will amaze your children every time they witness a bird eating the seeds out of the homemade feeder.
You can really be creative with what you will need in order to create the feeder. Here is what we suggest-
-Green apples cut in half with the seeds taken out
-Long screws to put in top of apple
Once you put the feeder together tie it on the branch of a tree near a window that your littles can reach. This is a great demonstration for them to see the fruits of their labor! (Pun intended ;))
Shaving cream artwork
How cool is this DIY marbled paper from shaving cream?! This is a great outdoor activity for you to provide when your littles have some friends over for a play date. Might we suggest letting them wear a painting bib and nothing else?! 🤪
-Heavier Weight White Paper
-Tooth Picks or Spoon for Stirring Food Coloring
-You can cover the table in a disposable plastic table cover to control the mess.